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Lastly, be kind to your children, even when you think they don’t deserve it. Children need to know that they are loved, no matter what – and that does not mean that you agree with everything they do. It just means that there’s nothing they can do to make you not love them. Once kids feel this, they will not need to test you, thereby eliminating one of the major reasons that teenagers try things they know are wrong.

Peer pressure is a very real and dangerous thing and so hard to stay strong in front of. Having these safeguards in place will hopefully give your children the strength they need to withstand it.

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Thank you for opening the discussion and may we all see much nachas from our children.

Hatzlocha!

 


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Dr. Yael Respler is a psychotherapist in private practice who provides marital, dating and family counseling. Dr. Respler also deals with problems relating to marital intimacy. Letters may be emailed to [email protected]. To schedule an appointment, please call 917-751-4887. Dr. Orit Respler-Herman, a child psychologist, co-authors this column and is now in private practice providing complete pychological evaluations as well as child and adolescent therapy. She can be reached at 917-679-1612. Previous columns can be viewed at www.jewishpress.com and archives of Dr. Respler’s radio shows can be found at www.dryaelrespler.com.