While I respect your views, please understand that as a psychotherapist in the Orthodox community, my goal is to help people find true happiness and fulfillment in their marriage choices and subsequently in their marital and family relationships. Consequently, I must accept the fact that we do not live in a perfect world. But it is still – and will always be – a worthy goal to help as many people as possible attain the greatest level of happiness in this challenging world.
Thank you for your letters. I hope my answer helps you better understand where I’m coming from. Hatzlachah!