I don’t know how to handle this situation. Even though he agrees with me after we’ve discussed this situation, he continues to be obsessed with events in Israel, causing a disconnect with our family. Do you think he is now addicted to his phone or is this just a passing situation due to the terrible situation in Eretz Yisrael? I welcome your feedback.
A Reader
Dear Reader:
Since your husband was very responsible in shutting off his phone before Operation Protective Edge, chances are good that his current behavior is probably just a passing phase. Keep in mind that due to so many people’s love for Klal and Eretz Yisrael, they have become addicted to the news and are acting very much like your husband.
Please tell your husband that while you are also very worried about the matzav in Eretz Yisrael, you find his actions at home difficult to deal with. Perhaps you can reach a compromise during this news frenzy, whereby you will feel more comfortable while he can still follow the latest events.
You don’t seem to have much to worry about since you note that your husband has always been attuned to your family’s needs. Hatzlachah to you, and may we merit shalom and the coming of Mashiach soon!