The above issues, while not primary symptoms of dyslexia, are very real side effects. Luckily, there are many things that parents can do to help their dyslexic children better socialize.
First, it is important to establish a diagnosis for your child. Perhaps his struggles with reading are associated with ADHD or a processing disorder. Therefore, it is essential to get your child evaluated in order to determine exactly what is hindering his academic progress. With the diagnosis in place, you can work with a learning specialist to implement an appropriate plan of action.
Then, from a young age, you must create a positive and encouraging environment. Instead of focusing on your child’s failures, emphasize his successes. Of course, you should continue to push your child forward, but do not concentrate on his failures.
Next, find an activity that your child is particularly skilled at. Some dyslexic children are wonderful at playing musical instruments; others are extremely artistic, while still others are supremely athletic. Once you discover what your child’s passion is, help him pursue it. Don’t worry if this is a solitary pursuit and does not involve other children. If you child excels, it will boost his self-esteem tremendously. This self-esteem boost will translate into a higher self-worth in other areas of his life as well.
Most importantly, help your child set attainable goals. Often, he will choose unrealistic or impossible goals that will only make him feel inadequate. Setting a goal that is achievable and then encouraging your child to rejoice in his success will work wonders for his self-worth and his social IQ.