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As therapists, we are merchants of hope. When our clients step into the therapy room, they often bring despair, shame, and deep wounds that feel immovable. They may have lost sight of their own inner wisdom, believing the pain is all that remains. In Internal Family Systems (IFS), we see these struggles not as fixed truths but as parts of a larger, dynamic system. And we hold hope – not in a naive, “everything will be fine” way, but in the deep, unwavering belief that healing is possible.

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Hope is a bridge. It connects exiled parts to Self, reminding them they are not alone. If a person feels like change is impossible, we encourage hope. If they feel like they can’t be fixed, we show them their value.

We do this because we know transformation is real. We’ve seen people’s emotional barriers come down, their inner pain lessen, and their natural compassion shine through. We’re focused on hope because it’s the driving force behind this kind of personal transformation. Until our clients can hold it for themselves, we carry it for them – not as a burden, but as a gift. And in doing so, we invite them back to their own innate wholeness.


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Yisroel Picker is a Social Worker and certified trauma therapist with a private therapy practice. He also writes and speaks publicly about parenting, communication, cognitive biases and child sex abuse prevention. He lives in Jerusalem with his wife and their five children.