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Harry Maryles

Harry Maryles runs the blog "Emes Ve-Emunah" which focuses on current events and issues that effect the Jewish world in general and Orthodoxy in particular. It discuses Hashkafa and news events of the day - from a Centrist perspctive and a philosphy of Torah U'Mada. He can be reached at hmaryles@yahoo.com.

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Emes Ve-Emunah

A Haredi Thawing? Oops, Never Mind

By Harry Maryles

What is really being gained by continuing to force Haredim to stay in the beis medrash full time via a draft that exempts Haredim?

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A Crack in the Wall of Haredi Opposition

By Harry Maryles

If Shas does agree to allow a secular core curriculum in their schools, that will put Ashkenazi Haredi leaders between a rock and a hard place.

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The 'Maharat': Wonderful Achievement, Bad Idea

By Harry Maryles

the title rabbi (or its equivalent) is more than about recognition of achievement.

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Will the Real Haredi Please Stand Up?

By Harry Maryles

The issue is not our obligation to listen to our rabbinic leaders. It is about whether we should listen to the rabbinic leaders of others.

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The Clash at the Kotel: Where is the Wisdom?

By Harry Maryles

With all the good intention of Israel’s rabbinic leaders, how could they not see that this was going to happen?

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Ner Israel Rosh Yeshiva: Yesh Atid MK Rabbi Dov Lipman 'Wicked'

By Harry Maryles

What I do not understand is the harshness of his condemnation.

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The Kolko Case: A Stain on Lakewood

By Harry Maryles

We are a people whose mandate is Torah observance in all matters - between man and God as well as between man and his fellow man.

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Get a Grip: Lapid is not Hitler or a Russian Czar

By Harry Maryles

There is only one word that can explain the over the top reaction by Haredi establishment to this: Paranoia.

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London's New Modesty Hotlines

By Harry Maryles

I must ask, where is the hotline for victims of sex abuse? Or victims of financial fraud? What are the remedies for the victims? Or the sanctions for the perpetrators?

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Intimacy in a Jewish Marriage

By Harry Maryles

Sexual dysfunction can take various forms for both men and women. If those statistics are right, it is a much bigger problem that I ever thought.

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Lakewood’s $10 Million Coup

By Harry Maryles

I, of course, have no problem with such a library. But is this what the State of New Jersey had in mind in approving $10 million dollars to Lakewood?

Emes Ve-Emunah

Stop Deriding Black Hatters!

By Harry Maryles

In the spirit of 'elu v’elu' we should just agree to disagree and respect each other’s views and lifestyles as long as they do not impinge on the rights of others.

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Is Hatred for Haredim Due to Media Bias?

By Harry Maryles

The record number of kipa-wearing Jews in the new Knesset surely shows that secular Jews do not really hate religious Jews.

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Holding on to Judaism While Attending University

By Harry Maryles

For the vast majority of students who truly want the best of both worlds, I would strongly recommend YU over any Ivy League school.

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Is the Chief Rabbinate to Blame?

By Harry Maryles

In Israel today, how many of our religious leaders instill pride in being Jewish into the secular public?

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The Outreach Revolution

By Harry Maryles

Our battles with the Conservative movement are over. They no longer pose a threat to Orthodoxy.

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For the Sake of Keeping the Bris Milah, Give Up Metzitza B’Peh

By Harry Maryles

Those who carry the herpes virus cannot always tell when it is present in the mouth.

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Terrorism and Immigration Reform

By Harry Maryles

When it comes to immigration policy, ignoring Islam’s part in this because of a misguided form of political correctness is why things like the Boston bombings happen.

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The Haredi Civil Right to Not Appreciate Israel

By Harry Maryles

A lack of patriotism is not a cause for punitive measures.

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The Dzhokar is Not Wild, It was Jihad

By Harry Maryles

It is Islamism that is the enemy and not al Qaeda. Al Qaida is but one tool of many dedicated to the cause.

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Changing the Paradigm of the Haredi Jew

By Harry Maryles

Universal army service will help integrate Haredim into the workplace so that they can earn a livable wage and support their families.

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An Autonomous Haredi State: Having Their Cake and Eating It Too

By Harry Maryles

The suggestion is intriguing, self serving and frankly somewhat humorous.

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Protesting the 'Evil Decree'? Why Not a Counter Rally?

By Harry Maryles

They can say all day long that they are not protesting Israel. The fact that they will be out there in the middle of Manhattan talking about 'gezeirot' says otherwise.

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Wrapped in Plastic and Hilul HaShem

By Harry Maryles

When a Jew who appears to the world as the most religious among us acts like a fool that is a hilul HaShem.

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The Sharansky Option

By Harry Maryles

Public protests of the expansion of the Robinson's Arch area for egalitarian prayer would only generate more enmity.

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Solving One Problem, Sort of...

By Harry Maryles

I personally see no problem with what Satmar did. They lobbied for the land and they got it. Black and Latino leaders could have done the same.

Emes Ve-Emunah / The Carter-Cardozo Controversy

Making Lemonade out of a Cardozo Lemon

By Harry Maryles

I agree with Alan Dershowitz that Carter's presence at Carodozo Law School should be used as a positive.

Emes Ve-Emunah

An Appalling Critique of Gilad Shalit

By Harry Maryles

Ben Caspit says the Shalit's kidnapping may have been prevented. That’s easy for him to say. He was not under rocket attack when he made these judgmental comments.

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Photoshopping Women Out of the Holocaust

By Harry Maryles

Digitally removing women from Holocaust photos dishonors those women and the victims and survivors of the Holocaust.

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How to Lessen the Hatred

By Harry Maryles

As long as rabbinic leaders live in the past and insist on calling the idea of ‘sharing the burden’ a 'shas haShmad,' antagonism toward Haredim will not change.

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Another Baby (Almost) Bites the Dust

By Harry Maryles

Rabbi Pirutinsky discussed the issue of 'metzizah b'peh' at length, concluding that if medical experts determine that there is a danger to the child, metzizah should be performed by other legitimate methods.

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A Mistaken Plea to Klal Yisrael

By Harry Maryles

Divinity exemptions are designed to produce clergy that will serve the populace, not so that every single member of it becomes a member of the clergy.

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YU Must Do the Right Thing

By Harry Maryles

Yeshiva University needs to admit that mistakes were made by leaders both past and present.

Emes Ve-Emunah

The Real Reason for the Fifth Cup

By Harry Maryles

The fifth cup is based on a machlokes in the Gemarah.

Emes Ve-Emunah

A Quick Analysis of Obama's Trip

By Harry Maryles

I think Obama is genuine in his expression of appreciation and even admiration for the Jewish people and the State of Israel.

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What Rav Shachter Said…

By Harry Maryles

We were all sitting around Rav Shachter in a circle. And we were all thinking the same thing.

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Societal Abandonment of the Bible as a Moral Guide

By Harry Maryles

Who individuals are attracted to is none of our business and shouldn’t influence our encounters with them, but that is different than the normalization of gay sex.

Emes Ve-Emunah

A Brighter Future for Haredim in Israel

By Harry Maryles

There is no reason why Haredim should continue to be the single biggest and fastest growing welfare demographic in all of Israel.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Visiting a Friend

By Harry Maryles

Unlike some of his biggest detractors, I believe that the President actually likes Israel and values the friendship of the Israeli people.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Is Sabbath Observance Enough?

By Harry Maryles

I would love to consider all people who observe Shabbos as observant. That was once the case.

Emes Ve-Emunah

A Hasidic Role Model

By Harry Maryles

I would love to see Mrs. Freier become the role model for all Hasidic women – and not just for those like the ones she attended school with.

Emes Ve-Emunah

A View of Observant Judaism by a Non Observant Jew

By Harry Maryles

Most of us know right from wrong and live as though it matters because it does. This is what David Brooks reported.

Emes Ve-Emunah

A Short but Fulfilled Life

By Harry Maryles

Even though his prognosis was never good, it was still a shock when it happened.

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Is Learning Torah 'Sharing the Burden'?

By Harry Maryles

Once again we see a great rabbinic figure who apparently does not understand what it is that really upsets the non-Haredi public, including many observant Jews.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Strange Bedfellows

By Harry Maryles

Haredi leaders could not care less if Israel retains Judea and Samaria - as long as their Mosdos (religious institutions) get funded.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Anger at Haredim: Who Is to Blame?

By Harry Maryles

The draft is but one area Haredi leaders badly stumble over.

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Some of My Best Friends Are...

By Harry Maryles

When journalists question why a black woman won a beauty contest - even if it is disguised as referring only to this particular black woman - I think that is sad.

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A Time for Zero Tolerance and a Time for Tolerance

By Harry Maryles

When it comes to victims of abuse the overriding approach should be one of compassion and understanding. But school officials' mishandling of a situation should not automatically result in termination.

Emes Ve-Emunah

The Conundrum of Dealing with Sexual Abuse

By Harry Maryles

There has been much reluctance by rabbinic groups such as Agudah to be more forceful in their approach to abusers. They find the allegations hard to believe.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Well Intentioned, but Wrong to Condone Homosexuality

By Harry Maryles

Making gay marriage not just value neutral but something positive. It is in effect koshering a forbidden lifestyle.

Emes Ve-Emunah

A New Beginning?

By Harry Maryles

The era of Godless leadership in the Knesset ended with Menachem Begin. One might even say it ended with the Six Day War.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Disappointed But Not Surprised

By Harry Maryles

There ought to be a process of exempting yeshiva students via bechinos (tests).

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Memo to the President: Compromise on the Budget

By Harry Maryles

The fault lies with both the executive and legislative branches of government. Neither wants to budge from their ideological positions.

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A 'Fake' Haredi?

By Harry Maryles

It is to Jonathan Rosenblum’s great credit that he has written this critical essay in a Haredi publication.

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Torah and the Secular Jew

By Harry Maryles

As a youth, MK Dr. Ruth Calderon was not satisfied with the secular treatment of Judaism she got in Israeli schools. So eventually she founded a secular yeshiva.

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Can a Gadol Resign?

By Harry Maryles

Gedolim are not perfect. They are human, just like the rest of us. A true Gadol will always try to do the right thing. And the public should not lose out because of occasional errors.

Emes Ve-Emunah

The Winds of Change

By Harry Maryles

Do these rabbis really think that Naftali Bennett, an observant Jew, or Rabbi Dov Lipman have “risen in our generation to destroy the Jewish people”?

Emes Ve-Emunah

How the World Sees Men in Black

By Harry Maryles

It is ethical and moral behavior that makes us a light unto the nations.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Goodbye to a Good Pope

By Harry Maryles

The relationship between the Jewish people and the Catholic Church has never been better. And the current Pope deserves credit for that.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Is it True that 'No One Really Frum Has a TV'?

By Harry Maryles

With this comment Rabbi Schneierson wiped out of Orthodoxy most of observant Jewry including many Haredim.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Achdus with Chabad

By Harry Maryles

Despite Chabad’s success in spreading Torah, they are not really integrated with the rest of Orthodoxy.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Why a Burka is Not Modest Enough

By Harry Maryles

I am surprised that burkas aren’t standard apparel for the woman in the street.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Is Consent for Metzitza B’Peh Really about Banning Circumcision?

By Harry Maryles

Metzizah b'peh is not even required by many Orthododx poskim. In fact it is actually discouraged by some.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Is Going to the IDF an Evil Decree?

By Harry Maryles

The implication of such statements is that anyone who serves in the army is guilty of violating a yahorog v’al ya’avor.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Lapid Concedes: Haredim Have Won (Video)

By Harry Maryles

Lapid is a patriot who is both honest and who has a clear vision for the future. A vision that is inclusive of all!

Emes Ve-Emunah

The 'Tznius Chase': Is This Photo Immodest?

By Harry Maryles

This is the 'tznius chase,' a subset of the 'Frumkeit race,' also known as the move to the right.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Selling Snake Oil for Charity

By Harry Maryles

Taking advantage of desperate people by getting them to part with their money in exchange for segulot is not what I believe God intended for us as a holy nation.

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And the Winner is...

By Harry Maryles

Even though there will be an unprecedented number of religious Knesset members, Haredim are closer to being drafted than at any time in Israel’s history.

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Weberman's Sentence: Justice Has Been Served

By Harry Maryles

No one should see Weberman's 103 year sentence as excessively harsh. Instead they should see this as a victory for the abused.

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Movers and Shakers

By Harry Maryles

In his new book Movers and Shakers, Elliot Resnick was able to capture the essence of each of his subjects.

Emes Ve-Emunah

To Be (Anonymous) or Not to Be

By Harry Maryles

Although I allow people to post anonymously (albeit with at least an alias) I would prefer that people stand by their words and not be afraid of them.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Another One Rides the Bus

By Harry Maryles

There are always people who in cases like this will cast the victim as a provocateur.

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Can a Therapist Destroy a Marriage?

By Harry Maryles

Individual therapy can be very helpful as long as the therapist does not turn his or her client against the spouse without hearing their side of it.

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Inspiring Our Youth and the Search for Meaning

By Harry Maryles

Among the many things Judaism can do for you is to give meaning to your life.

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The Price of Enforced Uniformity

By Harry Maryles

By now a critical mass of Charedim has learned and internalized that the evils – which are real – are not the only thing the internet has to offer.

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What Is Sexual Abuse?

By Harry Maryles

Should a university be sued because their officials at that time misread those events as relatively harmless?

Emes Ve-Emunah

Another Milestone for the Jewish People in America

By Harry Maryles

I said I am proud of the President for choosing the best man for the job at Treasury even though he is Jewish.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Telling it Like it is - Publicly

By Harry Maryles

No matter how altruistic one is - if he is afraid to speak the truth out of fear of being attacked, that is not leadership.

Emes Ve-Emunah

Don't Push Too Hard Against Hagel Nomination

By Harry Maryles

While it is the right of every American to lobby congress for their legitimate needs, I think our case has already been well made.

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A Bad Pick for Secretary of Defense

By Harry Maryles

I fear that if Israel ever faces existential danger such as that threatened by Iran, Hagel might just say that he is not the Defense Minster of Israel.

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The Future of Judaism

By Harry Maryles

Modern Orthodox Jews will join the ranks of Moderate Charedim as a socially cohesive group.

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Does the Very Air in Israel Make One Wise?

By Harry Maryles

I don’t know what is in the air in Israel that makes some people think that they are doing the right thing by God in sticking knives into the heads of their opponents.

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In Appreciation to My Readers…

By Harry Maryles

I wish to thank all of my readers for your support in helping to make this blog the success that it is.

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Outreach, Inreach and Insularity

By Harry Maryles

Inspiring the unaffiliated can be done through inspirational stories or through our own behavior as role models.

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Are the Ultra Orthodox Incapable of Seeing God Fearing in National Religious Jews?

By Harry Maryles

A Chareidi rabbi lamented the attempt to denigrate a kiddush hashem preformed by a dati-leumi (national-religious) student.

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Tznius Squads: Can This Really be Judaism?

By Harry Maryles

The extreme emphasis on tznius (modesty) has even led to husbands and wives being buried in separate locations.

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Every Jew – a .22?

By Harry Maryles

I believe that the massacre in Newton would never have happened if guns were made illegal.

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Religious Pluralism Within Orthodoxy

By Harry Maryles

My harsh criticism is reserved for extremist behavior that is a result of those Hashkafos – even if it is from my own.

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Mr. President, What Are You Thinking?

By Harry Maryles

How many times do we have to hear statements like 'the Jews have too much Power' before we realize that the people saying it are anti- Semites?!

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A Haredi Role Model

By Harry Maryles

A Haredi organization helps Haredim be brought up to speed to meet the challenges of the modern work place.

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An Existential Analysis

By Harry Maryles

If we are going to survive as a Jewish people, we must revise the system.

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An Ignorant Student

By Harry Maryles

It isn’t only important how hard a student studies, but what he studies.

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What Is the Biggest Problem Facing Judaism?

By Harry Maryles

My own view of things is that there is a tremendous amount of disillusionment in the Orthodox world.

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Technology, the Move to the Right and The Jewish Press

By Harry Maryles

I hope that the Jewish Press stays the paper of record for Orthodox Jewry. If it were to fold - the loss would be a devastating blow to moderation.

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Can Women say Kaddish?

By Harry Maryles

I do not see this as a feminist issue at all. This is a human issue.

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Netanyahu's Mistake

By Harry Maryles

In every move the Prime Minster has taken since the Presidential election, he has had complete U.S. support. Now Israel has taken a step backward.

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Touching the Opposite Sex

By Harry Maryles

'Shomer negiah,' the halachic bar on physical contact with the opposite sex, is wrongly treated by many as a Chumra that many do not observe.

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The Trial of a Rasha

By Harry Maryles

The facts of the case are so revealing that one would have to be blind, deaf, and dumb to think this man is innocent.

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Equality in Service to One's Country

By Harry Maryles

According to Rav Meir Porush, it is better for Yeshiva students to sit in jail than to serve their country.

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The Problem with Haredi Magazines

By Harry Maryles

Really? They had to ask the Rosh Yeshiva if they could help people?

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