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Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman is an Assistant Professor at Yeshiva University’s Azrieli Graduate School, an instructor at RIETS, and the Straus Center for Torah and Western Thought. He graduated YU with a BA in psychology, an MS in Jewish Education from Azrieli and Rabbinic Ordination from RIETS, before attending St. John’s University for his doctorate in psychology.He learned for two years at Yeshivat Netiv Aryeh. He has been on the rabbinic staff of Kingsway Jewish Center in Brooklyn, NY since 2010 and practices as a licensed psychologist in NY. His book “Psyched for Torah,” his academic and popular articles, as well as many of his lectures are accessible on his website, www.PsychedForTorah.com.

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Inflated Praise

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

In some children, embellished praise can lead to narcissistic tendencies. Praise is essential, but it is essential for praise to be tempered, not extravagant.

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Passing The Marshmallow Test

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The snake’s incitement and the aesthetic enticement of the fruit led to Chava’s and then to Adam’s self-control failure.

In Print / Torah

Whose Fault Is Our Suffering?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

We all sometimes think in warped and twisted ways. ... As an example, control fallacies can lead us to believe that we have absolutely no control over our lives.

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Yes, You Can Change

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The curses that Moshe delineated in Parshat Ki Tavo were meant to deter those who would consider abandoning faith in G-d and turning to other gods.

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Focus On The Good

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

One of the reasons we may have trouble noticing blessings is that there’s a human tendency to always want more. Yes, I have some money, but I could always have more.

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How Often Should You Remember?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

What are the parameters and guidelines for fulfilling this commandment? How should we remember and how do we ensure not to forget?

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Mind Over Milkshakes

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The Talmud presents an enigmatic aggadic dialogue between G-d and the angels in which the angels ask G-d how He can show favor to the Jewish people (as is implied in the Priestly Blessing) when fairness and justice usually preclude showing favoritism.

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Is Religion Good For You?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

In Parshat Vaetchanan, we learn that someone who kills another by accident must flee to a city of refuge for protection. The Talmud contains a fascinating addition to this law: If a student is forced into exile, his teacher must go with him.

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Affective Forecasting: Don’t Do It

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

As an example, consider a person who, after being insulted, takes a vow to avenge the slight. Over time, his anger subsides, and he no longer feels the same intense feelings toward the perpetrator.

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The Power Of Our Words

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Even a single negative word or phrase, when focused on for extended periods of time, can damage key brain structures that regulate memory and emotion.

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Would You Rather Be Right Or Happy?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Fights and disagreements often feel sweet and right in the moment but lead to bitterness and regrets in the long run.

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You’re Not A Grasshopper

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

It’s not entirely clear within the narrative what the spies did wrong. They were asked to scout the land and report back, and that’s what they did.

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In It Together

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The greatness of man manifests itself in his inner contradiction, in his dialectical nature, in his being single and unrelated to anyone, as well as in his being thou-related and belonging to a community structure.

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Happiness & Wholeness

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

One important lesson that several positive psychologists make is that relentlessly pursuing happiness usually does not lead to happiness.

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It's All A Matter Of Perspective

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Oneg is a spiritual pleasure, which doesn’t completely negate pain, but alleviates it by infusing meaning.

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How Do We Avoid Mistakes?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Rashi, quoting the midrash, takes the discussion in another direction by noting that “asher” doubles as an allusion to “ashrei,” meaning happy, praiseworthy, or fortunate.

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Leave Anger Out Of Shabbat

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

While Shabbat is in theory emblematic of tranquility, it often does not translate well into practice.

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Should We Admire Beauty?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Regardless of which approach we take, it is evident that there is an inherent value in magnifying and glorifying physical beauty as it relates to deeply sacred rituals.

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Always More To Learn

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Even the greatest sage, who has amassed encyclopedic knowledge and can plumb the depths of Talmudic analysis, is still called a student.

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How Does One Avoid Groupthink?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The Sanhedrin tended to be a group of like-minded individuals who were in charge of making very important decisions in high-stress situations, many of which had life and death consequences.

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Yes, You Can Control Your Emotions

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

This theory can be both empowering and (interpreted as) anxiety-provoking, as it makes each of us responsible for our own emotions.

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Fake It Till You Become It

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

When people change and “fake” their body posture from reflecting being closed off and timid to an open, power posture (think a Superman pose), they feel more confident and are more willing to act courageously.

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From Shortness Of Breath

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

While the Midrash does not state explicitly what caused this anger, perhaps they were upset that they had been promised redemption but nothing subsequently changed.

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Moshe – A Man Of Action

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

When everyone else was a bystander, Moshe takes action and defends the Ivri.

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Rewriting The Past

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Instead of focusing on the trauma, he should have realized that Hashem saved him from Esav and Lavan, and returned Dinah and Yosef.

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Want To Be Happy? Be Grateful

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The act of lighting the menorah is an expression of gratitude.

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How Did Reuven Persuade His Brothers?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The Torah shows us the genius of Reuven’s strategy in stopping his brothers from committing murder.

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Do You Have An Internal Locus Of Control?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Like the Slonimer Rebbe, Rabbi Yerucham Levovitz (Daat Torah p. 205-206) does understand "levado" as meaning alone. But based on the Midrash, he assumes that being alone is constructive. How can it be constructive?

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Believing In Our Abilities

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

In a brilliantly creative rereading of the pasuk, Rabbi Shimshon suggests that alluded to in Yaakov’s word choice is this discovery of self-efficacy.

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Yitzchak’s Sense Of Self

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

There isn’t much we know about his life, and what we do know seems to parallel many of the events in Avraham’s life.

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Want To Be Young? Serve Others

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Even a cursory reading of the pesukim leaves the reader in awe of the speed Avraham exhibited in performing the mitzvah.

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Elevated Gratitude

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

G-d, as it were, requires man’s assistance in revealing His presence in the world. Avram’s job was to spread G-d’s message in a world where He was obscured by idol worship.

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Be Kind, It Pays Off

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

If G-d miraculously ensured that all the animals came to Noach, why make him responsible for bringing them into the ark?

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Terror Management Theory

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The first person to die in Tanach is Hevel, who is killed by his brother Kayin. Kayin’s name comes from the concept of acquisition.

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Finding The Blessing Within The Curse

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

In a more hopeful explanation, the Ohr HaChaim suggests that the pasuk is presenting alternative options that lead to repentance.

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Serving With A Smile

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Being happy is a vital and necessary component in the performance of mitzvot.

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The Ben Franklin Effect

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

One is allowed, and perhaps even obligated, to hate someone whom one has seen transgress a commandment.

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Don’t Believe What You See

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The beginning of the parsha is startling in its simplicity: see the blessing and the curse in front of you and choose the blessing.

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Grateful Thinking

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

The remedy for external dangers is to reject the foreign cultures. Is the antidote to arrogance to discourage material wealth?

Torah

Are We Born Courageous?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Whichever explanation of “taguru” is correct, the message of the pasuk is about fear. Fear of another human being cannot be a factor when pursuing justice.

Torah

Pre-Commitment Devices

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Even though we generally abstain from taking oaths nowadays, figuring out other ways to up the ante and solidify our commitment is essential.

Torah

Social And Emotional Intelligence

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

One answer is that having this ruach is simply a gift from G-d. I either have it or I don’t. All I can do is daven and hope that Hashem grants me these abilities.

Torah

Are We Sure We're Fighting L'shem Shamayim?

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Rabbi Natan Tzvi Finkel argues that Moshe’s continual attempts to resolve the conflict teaches us that the prohibition applies even after the other party rejects an attempt at reconciliation.

Torah

Tzitzit And Color Psychology

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

At its core techelet reminds us of our mission in this world, which is to serve G-d by doing mitzvot and avoiding sinning.

Torah

Manna & The Variety Effect

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Bnei Yisrael couldn’t be longing for free food in Egypt because, says the Midrash, there was no free food in Egypt.

Torah

Want To Defeat Temptation? Stop Fighting

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

We often take the battle against temptation head on and eventually lose to that delicious looking piece of chocolate cake.

Torah

Unified Diversity

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Rabbi Kamenetsky explains that there is a danger inherent in the tribalism that is presented in Bamidbar.

Torah

Want Spriritual Success? Invest Some Grit

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Later commentators present many questions and interpretations to try to understand the depth of this midrash. In fact, the Ohr HaChaim presents 42 different explanations of these few words.

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Portion Control

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

It will be like the manna, which our Sages tell us was able to provide adequate nutrition and satiation despite its small size.

Torah

Sefirat Ha'Omer: Process And Outcome

By Rabbi Dr. Mordechai Schiffman

Researchers are trying to determine which approach is more effective in getting a person to his goal.

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