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Moishe Herskowitz, MS., LCSW, developed the T.E.A.M. (Torah Education & Awareness for a better Marriage). As a licensed clinical social worker and renowned family therapist, he guides new couples through easy-to-accomplish steps towards a happy, healthy marriage. He can be reached at CPCMoishe@aol.com or 718-435-7388.
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Most medical doctors treat OCD with medication to calm the amygdala. She was informed by her doctor that OCD could not be cured, but with medication it could be maintained. The fact remains that the medication's side effects were worse than the OCD itself.
Children who grow up with a parent who functions this way will often have issues of childhood abandonment, and live in a sort of black and white world.
The brain has two major functions and they are, put simply, “Am I Safe,” or “Am I in Danger?”
In fact Hashem sets up couples that have opposite traits as an opportunity for each to help, learn, and heal the other.
Your husband seems to have experienced what we have described as the Ambivalent Attachment.
Many times when a couple is arguing they may, unconsciously, trigger childhood anger. So much so, that if we would stop and listen to what they are arguing about, it would sounds like two eight year olds fighting in the back yard.
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