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'Media Be Dead' and Other Mild Observations

| MEDIA BE DEAD |
| SOME THINGS I CAN ANSWER |
| YOU SUBMIT, TIBBI POSTS, NO QUESTIONS ASKED |


| WHEN IT ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY HAS TO BE DONE ON TIME |
| TRUTH AND IDEOLOGICAL TRUTH |
Chaya no-last-name wrote a wonderful response to all the critics of last Sunday's Asifa, on xoJane. It's hard hitting, eloquent and sincere. It's also accompanied by a huge, magnificent image of a Jewish bride in the midst of an obviously Chasidic group of women.
And while I urge you to go read the thing, I also want you to look for the copy of Chaya's story with the gorgeous image on Yated Neeman, or Ami Magazine, or Mishpucha. And then when you give up, help me in thanking God for the Jewish Press online, where we can still be women without ridiculous obliterations.
Chaya stressed that 1. We are not imprisoned, 2. We like ourselves the way we are. And most of us are happy, 3. We find our husbands attractive, 4. We have been happily (minor expletive) for millennia. Jews never had the concept of "original sin." 5. Mikveh is awesome. We don't go to the mikveh because we're "dirty."
Now, I can agree that there must be many, many women, for whom some of the above are always part of their reality, but I find it hard to believe that all of us have all of the above in our lives. If Chaya is sincere about those points, I'd like a lock of her hair for my good luck charm…
What Women's Media Needs to Know About Chassidic Women
Hi. I'm Chaya, and I am a Chassidic Jewish woman. I am also a media professional with a degree in Women's Studies from a large, very liberal university (magna cum laude, baby!).
In the past few days, I've been reading the backlash against "the asifa," a recent mass meeting of religious Jewish men meant to draw a few boundaries around Internet use in our homes (meaning religious Jewish homes; not your house).
Chaya, xoJane
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July 3, 2026 






