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Parenting Our Children

The Art Of Note Taking

By Rifka Schonfeld

A lot of people have heard about dyslexia, a learning disability that concerns reading.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

I believe that Hashem will only bring Moshiach when we finally achieve achdus.

Parenting Our Children

First, Second, Third: Is It In Your Genes?

By Rifka Schonfeld

Because birth order can affect most children in similar fashion, there are things you can do to help your children overcome weaknesses that birth order has thrown their way.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

I love my husband dearly and I do everything to make him happy.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

Men and women have different roles to play in marriages and as parents.

Parenting Our Children

When Motivation Fails

By Rifka Schonfeld

Occasionally, a teacher will encounter a student who simply cannot be motivated to do his homework, finish his worksheet or study for a test.

Parenting Our Children

Helping Children Become Happy Adults

By Rifka Schonfeld

There is a point that many parenting books miss: children do more for us than we do for them.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

The husband needs to make some changes!

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

Whenever he did anything loving for me, I made a big deal about it.

Parenting Our Children

Sluggish Cognitive Tempo And ADHD

By Rifka Schonfeld

Tutor. Counselor. The doctor too, Sometimes it’s hard to keep up with you.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

She says that they are our children and since she brings in half, or sometimes more than half of our parnassah, we need to be full partners in their chinuch.

Parenting Our Children

Executive Function Disorder In Children And Adults

By Rifka Schonfeld

Pioneering authors Peg Dawson and Richard Guare, in their book Executive Skills in Children and Adolescents, outline the ways that we employ executive skills regularly.

Parenting Our Children

Milestones: Checking In Grade By Grade

By Rifka Schonfeld

Because I get phone calls about this all the time, I have put together a quick “cheat sheet” with milestones for reading, writing, and math from first grade through high school.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

I surprise my wife with gifts, large and small.

Parenting Our Children

Small Steps. Big Change.

By Rifka Schonfeld

The reason behind this is that when we ask our brains and bodies to make drastic changes, our fight or flight response kicks in and we become paralyzed.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

They are like children keeping count of who changed how many diapers each day.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

I find his mother to be a difficult person and my nature is to stay away from people like that.

Parenting Our Children

Teacher Training: What First-Year Teachers Need to Know

By Rifka Schonfeld

Why is there such a steep learning curve for teachers? And what can we, as educators and community activists, do better in the educational system and keep first-year teachers in the job?

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

Often both girls and boys compare their date to their parents.

Parenting Our Children

Readers: Ages And Stages

By Rifka Schonfeld

With so many new cases of ADHD reported each year, it is important to help children learn how to sit still.

Marriage and Relationships

Where Have All The Good Jewish Men Gone?

By Miriam Kosman

Perhaps today’s accomplished woman can wrestle all the lions and tigers and bears by herself, but when she does, she may not have a lot of room left in her life for vulnerability.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

The Moroccan wife's chief pride is showing that she ought to win the prize for the most attentive and solicitous spouse and mother.

Parenting Our Children

Regaining A Teenager’s Trust

By Rabbi Daniel Schonbuch

Teens-at-risk feel alienated from their parents and often believe that no one is interested in hearing about their problems.

Parenting Our Children

Sleep Issues: Routine, Bedwetting And More

By Rifka Schonfeld

While encouraging your child to take responsibility for bed-wetting (like asking him to change the sheets), remember that it is important not to get angry or make him feel guilty.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

Both parties need to become more tolerant of one another.

Parenting Our Children

Change Is Hard

By Rifka Schonfeld

As we said, you cannot get rid of a bad habit, you can only change it. But, how?

Parenting Our Children

Enjoying The Single Life

By Dr. Yael Respler

I think a major problem within the "single" community is the pressure to get married ASAP.

Parenting Our Children

Lions, And Tigers, And Bears, Oh My! The Scary Truth About PANDAS

By Rifka Schonfeld

In order to diagnose separation anxiety, these symptoms must not be isolated and must occur for more than four weeks consecutively.

Parenting Our Children

Growing Your Potential

By Rifka Schonfeld

When someone with a fixed mindset has a negative interaction with a friend or loved one, he or she immediately projects that rejection onto him or herself saying: “I’m unlovable.”

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

How many potential shidduchim are not coming about because we, the mothers, are not allowing them to go through?

Marriage and Relationships

Forming Relationships Step By Step

By Dr. Yael Respler

I so desperately want to have a loving relationship with my stepsons.

Marriage and Relationships

A Mix Of Letters

By Dr. Yael Respler

Isn't there anyone making a simcha who understands that loud music can cause hearing loss?

Marriage and Relationships

Things To Know Before A First Date*

By Gil Poznanski and Alanna Fine

Some other red flags: when a person spontaneously and angrily talks about exes on dates, reschedules a date more than once without an emergency situation, or talks about engagement or marriage right away.

Parenting Our Children

Handwriting: What’s The Point?

By Rifka Schonfeld

Children develop at different rates – they say their first words, take their first steps, toilet train, read their first word, and lose their first tooth at different times.

Marriage and Relationships

I Don't Like My Mother

By Dr. Yael Respler

My mother thinks of herself as a superior person, has very little feelings for other people, and probably suffers from a deep lack of self-esteem.

Parenting Our Children

Liar, Liar Pants On Fire: Why Do People Lie?

By Rifka Schonfeld

Once you understand why you are lying, you might be better able to tell the truth.

Parenting Our Children

How Memory And Learning Work Together

By Rifka Schonfeld

This core idea of memory is very difficult to fully comprehend; however, it is essential.

Marriage and Relationships

Dealing With An Abusive Wife

By Dr. Yael Respler

Sometimes the most powerful countermove one can make when a person is screaming is to calmly say that her behavior is not helpful and then continue interacting with the rest of the family while ignoring the enraged person.

Marriage and Relationships

A Wise Marital Therapist

By Dr. Yael Respler

There are many people today with very little training who put out shingles and proclaim themselves to be marital coaches, shalom bayis helpers, advisers etc.

Marriage and Relationships

Separate, But Not Equal

By Dr. Yael Respler

When one marries someone with children, all family members must accept them.

Parenting Our Children

Making Our Children Feel Loved

By Rifka Schonfeld

Do you love your children? Of course, who doesn’t? Maybe I should rephrase the question: Do your children feel that you love them?

Parenting Our Children

Not The Top Of The Class: Why American Schools Are Mediocre

By Rifka Schonfeld

“Without a high school diploma, you couldn’t work as a garbage collector in New York City; you couldn’t join the Air Force. Yet a quarter of our kids still walked out of high school and never came back.” – Amanda Ridley

Marriage and Relationships

Being Treated Equally

By Dr. Yael Respler

My mother-in-law is totally devoted to her daughters and their children. Her sons’ children on the other hand are treated like second-class citizens.

Parenting Our Children

Give and Get

By Rifka Schonfeld

Avromi often put other people’s interests before his own: he would not defend people whom he believed were guilty (even if they were willing to pay him a lot of money).

Marriage and Relationships

Chesed Begins At Home

By Dr. Yael Respler

How can I help my wife learn to say "no," and understand that her first priority must be her husband and family?

Marriage and Relationships

Is Marital Therapy A Mistake

By Dr. Yael Respler

It is important for a therapist to focus on a person's strengths as a way of overcoming his or her difficulties.

Parenting Our Children

Nerds, Introverts And Bullies

By Rifka Schonfeld

Social disabilities occur at many levels, but experts identify three different areas of learning and behavior that are most common for children who struggle to create lasting social connections.

Marriage and Relationships

Summer Dilemma

By Dr. Yael Respler

I went to camp for many years. We cleaned our own bunks and did not have air conditioning.

Parenting Our Children

Wholehearted Parenting

By Rifka Schonfeld

Brown argues that this wholehearted living must extend into our parenting.

Marriage and Relationships

In-Law Complications

By Dr. Yael Respler

"I would really love my mother-in-law ...if she weren't my mother-in-law."

Marriage and Relationships

The Meaning Of Time

By Dr. Yael Respler

Not enjoying saying no, I often succumbed to requests viewing them as demands I couldn't refuse.

Parenting Our Children

Manners and Menschlichkeit

By Rifka Schonfeld

This is an important one in raising a mentsch (and maybe even in marrying off a mentsch! listening skills are on the top of the list when I do shidduch coaching).

Marriage and Relationships

A Positive Outlook

By Dr. Yael Respler

It’s fair to say that we all know or have someone in our family who is divorced.

Marriage and Relationships

Dear Dr. Yael

By Dr. Yael Respler

I recently met a wonderful woman who writes poetry. With her permission, I am sharing a poem she wrote about time.

Marriage and Relationships

Dealing With Loss

By Dr. Yael Respler

What can we do to help him stop feeling so sad all the time?

Parenting Our Children

Language Based Learning Disability: Not Just In The Classroom

By Rifka Schonfeld

Children with dyslexia or dysgraphia frequently have problems in social relationships.

Challenging Parenting

Life Lessons From Raising An Autistic Child (Part VIII)

By As told to Gila Arnold

Because Menachem lives in Israel, he can feel the ruach in the air.

Marriage and Relationships

The Perturbed Educator Responds

By Dr. Yael Respler

Perhaps you can reach a compromise during this news frenzy, whereby you will feel more comfortable while he can still follow the latest events.

Marriage and Relationships

Attaining Both Torah U’madda

By Dr. Yael Respler

There could be no Jewish-themed books and, as such, the lack of knowledge these boys displayed in regards to many of the topics we read about was clear.

Parenting Our Children

Questions & Answers

By Rifka Schonfeld

Some educators today believe that Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder falls into an executive function category.

Marriage and Relationships

A Call From Above

By Dr. Yael Respler

Upon hearing that he did, the owner sent him the atarah – all shiny and new – to be returned to me. I was reunited with my father’s precious gift.

Parenting Our Children

Non-Verbal Learning Disorder: Bridging The Gap Between Speech And Understanding

By Rifka Schonfeld

Because the children suffering from this disorder generally have wonderful verbal skills, the disability can go unrecognized for many years.

Marriage and Relationships

Not A Dirty Word

By Rabbi M. Gary Neuman

Sacrifice is the backbone of our souls. It indicates self-regulation for a higher purpose.

Parenting Our Children

A Society Of Stress: How To Get Things Done

By Rifka Schonfeld

People definitely had stress one hundred and fifty years ago, but it was a different kind of stress.

Marriage and Relationships

Solving The Shidduch Crisis Goes On

By Dr. Yael Respler

A prominent shadchan recently articulated a dilemma she’s facing.

Marriage and Relationships

Defense Against The Bully

By Dr. Yael Respler

The real solution to bullying is to empower the bullied child.

Parenting Our Children

Positive Time Out: Discipline Strategies

By Rifka Schonfeld

Time outs increases compliance and positive behavior far more than other forms of discipline

Parenting Our Children

It’s all Small Stuff; So Why Am I So Stressed? (Part II)

By dvora

Interestingly, sometimes people who have a very high self-awareness may experience intense reactions to circumstances that others might respond to more mildly.

Parenting Our Children

How To Raise A Mentch

By Rifka Schonfeld

The Joys of Yiddish, Leo Rosten defines a mentch as “someone to admire and emulate, someone of noble character.”

Parenting Our Children

Communication Disorders Or What Happened To ‘Just’ Talking?

By Dr. Judith S. Bendheim Guedalia

Certainly today’s communication via e-mail, Facebook, Twitter and the like, including the ubiquitous Whatsapp, has reduced the need to talk with people and communicate at length.

Marriage and Relationships

Being A Friendless Teen

By Dr. Yael Respler

My teachers like me and they tell my parents that I am a great girl with good middos.

Parenting Our Children

Twice Exceptional: Smart Kids With Learning Disabilities

By Rifka Schonfeld

In reality, Baruch is one of many children who can be described as twice-exceptional. He is both gifted and struggling with a learning disability.

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