Dr. Yael Respler is a psychotherapist in private practice who provides marital, dating and family counseling. Dr. Respler also deals with problems relating to marital intimacy. Letters may be emailed to deardryael@aol.com. To schedule an appointment, please call 917-751-4887. Dr. Orit Respler-Herman, a child psychologist, co-authors this column and is now in private practice providing complete pychological evaluations as well as child and adolescent therapy. She can be reached at 917-679-1612. Previous columns can be viewed at www.jewishpress.com and archives of Dr. Respler’s radio shows can be found at www.dryaelrespler.com.
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Big people say, "You were right"; bigger people are willing to say, "I was wrong."
The more love we share and the more confidence we build in our families, the safer they will feel.
I once heard that when a teacher does not expect her student to achieve, the student would, in fact, not achieve.
Respect and warmth can do wonders to build a relationship.
We must believe in our children and look for the good in them.
Focus on a child's strengths and use them to help him or her become the best person possible.
He needed to be pushed to his physical edge and to fight. He really needed to fight.
Dear Dr. Yael, I've been thinking about the mother who was so busy volunteering that her family felt neglected (August 3). Of course, I don't know the family dynamics or the psychological factors that may be involved, and I'm not a psychologist so I can't speak as a professional. However, I thought it might be […]
Children of survivors struggled to please their parents, and therefore, did the opposite with their own children.
We like to believe that all mothers are proud when their daughters surpass them; however, research shows that this is not so.
I miss my child deeply and daven that a true yeshua takes place.
Pesach should be a wonderful time for families to share, a time of bonding and memory-creating.
Finding a therapist is like finding a shidduch.
I have a few friends who I believe are literally pushing their bashert away for ridiculous reasons.


